Questionning

I'm just sitting here, a bit flabbergasted at some people's (or rather one person in particular) behavior. A friend of mine is being, for all intents and purposes, stalked by her ex husband. His erratic behavior frightens me and has me scratching my head, wondering why people do things like this. Why can't you, if you're now divorced (for well over a year now), just leave that person alone? I just don't get it. While my divorce wasn't the most acrimonious of events, it was hardly fun-filled. But we found a way to become wonderful friends, despite all of the hurt and hard feelings. I know we're not normal (Mr. H and me) but really, is it so hard to not start your day minus the malicious thoughts? Rather than thinking of how you can destroy someone's spirit, someone's joy and essentially their life, why not just...I don't know, see a therapist or go to church? Find a way to work that shit out.

Ugh.